I was originally going to write a post regarding to mirroring with the Twin Flame Journey but I figured I’d save that for another time. The biggest question that people ask is, what is a Twin Flame? A twin flame is someone of the same soul that you are reincarnated to earth with for several reasons. One of the biggest reasons being a catalyst for your healing journey.

When you first meet your twin flame it feels like a sense of recognition like you’ve known them before, almost like a sense of love at first sight. Except it isn’t your physical body that loves them, it’s your spirit. Upon meeting it feels like the cupcake stages of a relationship, everything seems so perfect and like you have so much in common. Which in all actuality you do. But then that’s when the Yellow flags start to present themselves. By Yellow I mean its subtle not too harsh things you notice about this person, but don’t pay much attention to them. Not so much because you’re ignoring them, but simply because, this is the start of the catalyst for your healing.

The first thing that you truly learn on this journey is a sense of self worth, boundaries, and how to say no. As time goes on this persons mask starts to fall and you see them for who they are. In most instances, these things were already there. The issue was the sense of love bombing that was going on and the heavy infatuation that caused you not to see the signs.

Now the biggest thing I’ve noticed with this journey is, not just the lack of accountability on the Divine Masculine’s (energy not gender) part. But the Divine feminine not taking accountability for her own actions and the things that it is that she’s allowed. In the beginning of this journey for the most part what triggers you is generally what you need to work on within yourself. Now is that to say that everything this person does will be something that’s within you? Not at all. But it will help you to see areas of your life that needed to be observed and things that needed to be changed.

The biggest lesson that I’ve learned on this journey is to ask myself “Why does this bother me? Why am I reacting in this way?”. A lot of the things this person does you won’t realize are things that you do as well, until later on. For the simple fact that healing happens in layers. Which is why for some reaching “union” feels like it takes too long. But, who said healing had a start and an end date? The main focus is going on a journey to rediscover who YOU are. Most people find this to be a task, instead of an investment into themselves. When you truly take the time out to call your power back and pour all of that energy into you. You will soon see how much you chose to neglect yourself by putting your happiness last, as means to make everyone else around you happy.

That alone is a hard truth for many people to face, why? Because at that point all the fingers that were once being pointed are directed at you. Then you see you have to take accountability for a lot of things in your life. It angers you at first when you realize not only with this connection have you so freely gave your power away. But to so many people, places, and things.

Thank you for going on this journey with me! If you’d like a part two or have any other questions feel free to send them to my email at brujastoblunts@gmail.com or send me a message on Instagram brujastoblunts.llc.