As you can see loooots of Fire cards. So it’ll definitely be a lot of healing coming to surface, and major breakthroughs. Now will be the time to work on expressing yourself in ways you’ve been afraid of doing so especially in communicating. Along with expressing yourself comes forgiveness, always remember forgiveness isn’t always JUST for the other person it is for you as well. Along with that comes growth and expansion and opens you up endless possibilities. When you clear out old blockages and energy it opens you up to abundance and blessings. Be willing to let go of what no longer serves you whether that be sadness, anger, doubt, fear and be open to a fresh start. So if you have people or relationships you feel should be mended or even things that deserve your forgiveness do so ❤️✨
Today focus on the things you WANT. What your heart desires isn’t too far out of your reach. You have the power (literally and figuratively speaking) to attract all that you want and need. But, just as it’s been said “faith, without works, is dead”. So be willing to put in the work to acquire all that you want! This weekend is the new moon, take the time out write on a piece of paper all that you want, be very precise, and even include a time frame. You can either burn it, bury it, or hide it in a dark place you know you won’t bother to look. Even amp things up and write it in a green pen or burn a green candle while doing so as it symbolizes new beginnings 💚✨
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Realize you have power over your current situation. In order to move forward you have to be willing to let go of what you once knew. Nobody has the power to open up doors to a new life but YOU. When you look at things through a child’s eyes and see everything as a new possibility instead of an obstacle you’ll realize there is more out there for yourself than you could ever imagine! This has a lot to do with what you deal with in your physical world, your finances, but most importantly your health! So if you want to see changes let go of what you were programmed to know and take control of your destiny! ✨
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Card of the Day: Fool or as I translate it to “Not Giving One Single Fuck”
Today I’m here to tell you fuck what you’ve been told, fuck what society says, fuck him, her, that girl, and that dude over there and do what makes YOU happy. With this card being an air card as well it’s tied to your thoughts. Stop thinking about what is right and start doing wtf MAKES YOU HAPPY.
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You remember when you were younger hearing the term, “you need to go put some clothes on so and so will be coming over”. That was a never-ending thing but because you didn’t wanna challenge authority you never questioned it. Only to grow up realizing there was a possibility of a child molester or rapist being in your family. It just makes you wonder how far back did this go that it was deemed acceptable to wanna look out for a grown man/women’s best interest opposed to an innocent child who can’t defend themselves. Nowadays you see this more and more frequently. When a girl is dressed a certain way or just dressed normal, she will be called fast, and body shamed at an early age. Which down the line will only lead to her feeling ashamed of her temple that she barely even got the chance to learn to love. But it was never the case that little girl was fast. Mothers just didn’t have the balls to truly love their daughters the way they needed to be loved and it was and still is common for the father not to be around so the little girl sought out for love wherever she could get it. Even though all the way back in the 30’s and 40’s it was normal for a girl to get married young or for the guy she dated to be older even if she wasn’t of legal age. This day and age though nobody seem to give a damn about the fact, just because you’re 18 that doesn’t mean a damn thing. If I personally knew what all I do now at 18 I could’ve avoided a lot of the bullshit I had to deal with later down the line. The point in the matter is viewing little girls as grown women at an early age is the issue in itself. Girls these days can’t wear their hair a certain way, or wear a harmless spaghetti strap top without an older woman telling her she needs to cover up. The real question with this is although most women that have went through being raped, molested, or anything else at a young age, why do they seem to feel it’s a better idea to look out for someone that could potentially harm their children as opposed to removing that person from the environment and letting them know they aren’t welcome? Instead they force their girls to cover up, shame her for the rest of her life, then when she gets older just continues the same pattern with other young girls and her own children.
That’s not even scratching the surface, it’s already bad enough sexualizing little boys is even worse because it’s so accepted it’s almost sickening. Before they’re even close to hitting puberty, boys are taught how necessary it is to have multiple girlfriends or how they will grow up to be a lady’s man. So now as the boy gets older he doesn’t view women in a positive light. All he feels is necessary is, to get in their pants or to make sure that he has a high body count. But nobody wants to talk about how boys can be molested or raped. Not even so much by men, but women more than anything. Since apparently losing your virginity by age 7 is a thing boys aren’t taught to understand. Nor is it not okay for a grown woman to be attracted to a young boy. Or if an older woman is touching them in a way that makes them uncomfortable to tell them to stop or to notify an adult. This alone is why so many boys have unresolved sexual trauma because they are taught so fucking early that this type of shit is okay when it’s really not. I myself am curious as to how it’s okay for women to even joke about a 5 or 6-year-old boy being their boyfriend even if it’s in a harmless way. A little kid won’t see it as harmless, they’ll just take it as a compliment that an older woman likes them. Haven’t yall ever heard the term more than not from a man, how he was always into older women? At a young age at that? What in the entire fuck is normal about boys having an attraction to older women unless there’s a possibility of them being molested. But hey don’t shoot the messenger for putting a title on something that’s so widely normalized by the world.
Although, that is something we need to speak about is why are girls shamed so early on for their body but boys it’s damn near something worth giving them a gold medal for even losing their virginity? Or even better, why is it these days on Facebook ads or magazines do they have these little girls dressed in tight skirts, rompers, or tight clothing period? Even though a pedophile will always be a pedophile it’s almost as if they are trying to gear these types of ads to older men. Because, you really fucking think a baby boy is gonna look at a baby girl and say “damn she looks really good in that romper, or damn look at her legs!”. Hell no, ain’t no kid that young gonna say some shit like that. But, a grown man will, or maybe even dress it up and say I want my daughter to look like that. Look like what exactly? Please be more specific in what you’re referencing in the picture.
Then the thing with that is it’s a double-edged sword. The media wants to aid in attracting grown men to these little girls and calling what they have on cute and stylish. Or labeling it as a “Mommy and Me” outfit set. But you get around these older generation and a girl can’t even wear a simple tank top and shorts because they don’t want grown men looking at them or eyeing them. It truly just seems like a constant battle between unresolved trauma from our aunts, grandmas, and so forth. Then we have the media damn near breeding men to be pedophiles and confuse their conscious into thinking these little girls are attractive.
Let’s not add to the fact, how there are men who sit and will wait years for a woman to finally turn 18 just to date her. Or some won’t even wait till then they’ll date her when she’s 17 and start to mold her into the woman he wants her to be. But that alone is a topic for another day. Next time though you see a man or a woman sexualizing or belittling a child for being a child don’t be afraid to say something. More than likely the people that are doing this had it done to them so they see no issue in what they’re doing……
There a lot of changes coming into your life, along with things coming to an end. But their only for the better. With it being a lot of Air signs (Gemini, Aquarius, and Libra) and Earth signs (Taurus, Virgo, and Capricorn) this could possibly means changes coming into your life. There have been a lot of things you have been envisioning and planning but in order for that to happen you have to get out of your head and realize you have to power to manifest the changes you want in life. Change may not always be something you’re used to or okay with, but just know it’s for the best. In order to welcome the doors that are opening you have to be willing to let go of what once was. You may feel as though you’re losing so much, but in all actuality you’re gaining more than you could ever imagine 🖤
Today’s card is Forgiveness with Jupiter being in Leo. Jupiter being the planet of growth and expansion. Too often we can be too prideful to forgive and worry too much about our ego and how it’ll be affected or hell if our apology will even be accepted. Or better yet having to forgive someone that isn’t sorry. One thing I say all the time is you cannot take poison and expect it to affect the next person. Forgiveness ain’t always for that person. It’s for you, your peace, your sanity, but most of all your growth. Being able to forgive a person that hurt you shows unexplainable growth and courage. So today even if you can’t speak directly forgive that person. Write your letter of forgiveness then burn it. Allow that energy put into that paper to be transmuted into the universe. Once it’s done, wipe your hands of it and allow yourself to be free. Love yourself enough to want a peace of mind 🖤
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With today’s card we have the seas of resurrection. If most aren’t familiar The Element Seas is also the same as water. Water impacts our feelings, emotions, and our hearts. We also are 70% water, along with that today is also a full moon on top of it being Friday the 13th. Today a lot of emotions may be resurfacing or feelings and emotions, with the energy being high be mindful of what you say and how you handle things. But also if need be release what needs to while being mindful. As everyone knows things can be crazy sometimes during a full moon and it can seem like pure chaos. Take this day to release anything that is no longer serving you. You are in control of your destiny and along with your destiny comes the words or energy you out into the universe. If you need to write out everything you need to say on paper fold it up then burn it to allow that energy to transmute into the universe. Don’t allow dead feelings and emotions to hold you back from what could be!
Grand risings! Today I was doing my usual shuffling the cards and I always say show me what the people need to hear. Then unless I pull the deck, I allow the cards to fall out and depict what it says. This time around 3 cards fell out. The energy I’m getting from it is self love or self care. How often have you paid attention to how you talk to yourself? When you beat yourself up over simple mistakes? Today’s 3 cards are here to tell you to love yourself, embrace the good and the bad, and realize what you say to yourself not only is internalized but is projected onto others. Also knowing what boundaries not to cross when it comes to you. You can’t expect to give out your love when you can’t even love yourself. Next time you catch yourself saying something negative ask yourself “how would I feel if someone else said these things to me?”. Maybe then it will help you to see just how much you tear yourself down more than anyone else……
I haven’t done the card of the day because my mind has been all over the place but today’s cards are Yemaya in Virgo, and Wind in Visionary. I decided to do a two card pull because I felt there was more to this message you all needed to hear.
Now, what both of these cards are saying is in order to get where you need to be sometimes solitude is necessary. How often do you just sit in silence with your own thoughts? Almost never? Frequently? With Yemaya she goes down to the depths of the sea in order to find peace and solitude. Along with the visionary it could be many of you who have a certain vision you want to manifest or something you want to bring to life or things within yourself you want to work on but in order to do so, you have to be willing to step away from the crowd to evaluate that. Take the time to assess all the things running through your mind, your heart, your emotions, but most importantly how it is that you feel. When you do so everything will fall into place and things will make more sense.
Brujas, Blunts, and Everything Inbetween 